Seems to be the place

When I don't have aanyone to talk to...
How do I deal with my husband being depressed about leaving this ranch when I want to leave....why does it hurt so much to see him so down. I feel like I have failed him by not wanting to stay. I am bored out of my mind on the edge of tears and feel like I am falling into a pit.
How do I deal with the fact that our church bores him and the spirit is seldom felt there? He says he wants to stop going and maybe it it time to move on.